Free Download: “Little Red Apples”
This is one of many counting songs I’ve written, which focuses on counting both up to 5 and down from 5. I created simple apple visual aides (using red construction paper and then laminating) which my students can then manipulate as we count.
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The Rhythm Sticks Waltz

Every time I use this song in a class or music therapy session, I start by having my students count to 3. We do it once to begin with, very slowly, and use our fingers as well as our voices. Gradually we get faster, counting to 3 again and again in rhythm. Then I explain that they’ve just counted a type of song called a waltz.
Rhythm sticks are a great instrument for this type of activity, because the beat can be heard very clearly. Younger students seem to have better impulse control while playing sticks as opposed to drums or other types of percussion instruments, though I may experiment a little.
This is a relatively new song, but so far I’ve had lots of fun and success with it. The concept of counting to 3 over and over again is a bit difficult at first, but once my students can do that, they have laid the foundation for some pretty important music (and non-music) skills.
If you can count to three (1, 2, 3)
Then you can do the rhythm sticks waltz with me.
Just click your sticks and feel the beat,
The rhythm stick waltz is so sweet.
1-2-3, 1-2-3, 1-2-3, go,
Keep tapping, don’t stop yet,
Just feel the flow.
If you can count to three (1, 2, 3)
Then you can do the rhythm sticks waltz with me.
Just click your sticks and feel the beat,
The rhythm stick waltz is so sweet.
1-2-3, 1-2-3, 1-2-3, pause,
And take a rest,
Let’s hear the applause!
Of course, when I use this song in a live session or class, we make our own applause :) We also vary the tempo, going very slowly at first and then seeing how quickly we can play and sing while keeping the steady beat.
I don’t write many songs in 3/4 time, especially not songs meant to be played along to with instruments. But it’s good to have a few in the mix. Which waltz-tempo songs do you sing and play with your students?
Every Little Thing is Gonna Be All Right
My husband and I spent our honeymoon on the island of St. Lucia back in summer of 2008, and had an amazing time. The weather was perfect, the scenery was gorgeous, and the music was…well, repetitive. It’s a good thing we like Bob Marley, because that is what we heard for 8 straight days.
So now every time I hear “Three Little Birds” (my favorite Marley tune), I’m taken back to that glorious week of sun, fun, and relaxation. It’s sort of become my calm-down song; I find myself singing it when I’m stressed or worried.
When I mentioned on Twitter a few weeks ago that it was stuck in my head, one of my music therapy friends mentioned that there is a children’s book based on the song. And you know how much I love singable stories, so this will definitely be added to my collection.
Finding Music Therapy
I have this man to thank for my career in music therapy. Dr. John Sinclair, or “Doc” as everyone calls him, was the head of the music department at Rollins College during my undergraduate years, and still is today. He directed the ensembles in which I sang, and I had him as a professor for several classes.
But it was one particular class he taught that changed my path; I can’t remember the name of it, but I remember the pivotal assignment. Doc asked us to choose a career in the music field and write an in-depth research paper on it. I was a vocal performance major, and had dreams of becoming a professional singer. But I wanted to learn about something new, so I did a Google search for “careers in music”. Music therapy was one of the top hits.
I read everything I could on the internet about music therapy that day, and on Monday morning, I went straight to Dr. Sinclair’s office. “Doc, I know what I’m going to write my paper about, and I’ve found my future career!” It turns out that Doc knew all about music therapy, and offered to contact a music therapist he knew who had just moved to the Orlando area.
A week later, I had written my paper and begun job shadowing his music therapist friend. I watched her in action at a nursing home, with private students taking adapted lessons, and with an early childhood group. She told me all about her coursework as a music therapy student, and spent hours answering all of my questions. I was even more convinced that music therapy was for me.
I was in the second semester of my sophomore year at the time, and couldn’t stand the thought of waiting another year and a half to graduate and go on to grad school for music therapy. So when my advisor told me that I had enough credits to graduate after the first semester of my junior year, I only hesitated a little. Did I really want to leave college — my friends, my sorority, this beautiful campus — 1.5 years early? It was hard, and I got a lot of flack from my friends, but I did it anyway.
I applied to and was accepted at several schools in Florida, including FSU and University of Miami. But in the end, I returned to Illinois and ended up an hour north of my home, at Illinois State University. I was sad to be back in the cold; however, I couldn’t pass up a full ride to graduate school. It ended up being worth it, though, since it was at ISU where I fell in love with my now-husband :)
So that’s my story of finding music therapy. I was inspired by similar stories shared by my colleagues, including Nat Mullis and others. What’s your story — whether you found music therapy or another career for which you were meant?
Friday Fave: ‘Sing You Home’ by Jodi Picoult
There’s been a lot of buzz about this book in the music therapy world for the last few months. Why? Because the protagonist is a music therapist! That doesn’t happen very often (in fact, I only know of one other book where that is the case), which is why it has caused such a stir.
So of course when the book came out, I made a mad dash to my computer to download the audio version and started listening right away. It’s safe to say that I enjoyed it, considering I finished the book in just a few days.
Sing You Home is not just about music therapy, to be sure. Jodi Picoult tackles several big issues, including infertility and same-sex marriage. As with all of her other books, there are emotional highs and lows, twists and turns, and my favorite aspect of her writing — wonderful character development.
Zoe, the main character who is a music therapist, came alive for me after just a chapter or two. I felt like I knew her, and the same went for the other characters. It was so much fun to listen to the descriptions of her music therapy sessions — I kept forgetting I was reading a mainstream novel!
Many of the sessions she led in the book sounded similar to the kinds of things I do in my own sessions, although she worked with a wider range of populations than I. Zoe faced many of the same struggles that we as music therapists do, including having to explain what she does repeatedly and having to stand up for music therapy as an evidence-based treatment modality.
I don’t want to include any spoilers, so I’ll leave you with this: read the book. And not just because music therapy is involved! It’s beautifully written, fast-paced, and makes you think. Have you read it yet?
A Letter To Music Therapists From a Teacher
Today, I’d like to share a letter I received from a teacher in Texas on behalf of her students past, present and future. I’ve mentioned her several times, and she is a member of Listen & Learn Plus. As music therapists, these are just the words we need to hear from time to time.
Esteemed Music Therapists,
Thank you. If you have not heard those words this week, thank you. Rachel mentioned in a recent blog she had a moment of doubt whether or not her therapy had an impact on a particular student. Most probably we have each struggled with this doubt at one time or another. However, I will attest your music and therapy does. Time and space do not allow me to recount the myriad of times music has opened closed doors for my students.
As a prekindergarten teacher I think maybe we share some of the same frustrations when it comes to advocating for our profession. At times both those inside and outside the education community lack an understanding of what we do and the impact it has on our students. Those of us who rely on music, and music therapists, as an integral part of our instruction know–especially those like me whose only musical talent is pressing a button on a CD player or iPod. If we have failed to thank you, let me do that now. If you have times of frustration, if others ask questions that show a lack of understanding, bring to mind one student, one moment when it was clear your gift to these souls was evident. Please keep using your gifts to open avenues of communication and cognition for our students.
Thank you, Rene, for your beautiful letter and for supporting music therapy. Your students are lucky that you understand the benefits of music, and that you use it to teach them regularly.
The Music Therapist Who Lost Her Voice
I came down with laryngitis for the first time as an 11-year-old in the 6th grade. Little did I know that it would be the first of many, many cases that would disrupt auditions, performances, competitions, and eventually, work responsibilities.
As someone who makes her living as a music therapist, studio teacher, and occasional performer, my voice is my livelihood. I’m a one-woman show, and I don’t have a substitute therapist or teacher I can call in when my voice goes MIA. Needless to say, that old phrase “the show must go on” resonates deeply with me.
Take this afternoon, for instance. I’m scheduled to lead an early childhood music class that is open to the public; not everyone who might attend is on the email list. So I have no choice but to show up and do the best I can to provide an enriching musical experience for those families.
I’ve done it many times before, both in this setting and in others, and there are a few techniques I rely on to avoid a total FAIL of a class or music therapy session.
- Many of my students love to perform for each other, and this is the perfect time to let them have an impromptu talent show.
- Lead movement-based activities that rely on imitation rather than verbal instruction.
- Sign along to meaningful recorded music and have students follow.
- Let students take turns leading musical activities or interventions.
- Pass out percussion instruments and have a drum circle.
- Use color-coded lyric sheets to lead handbell playing.
- Student-facilitated songwriting and lyric analysis. They talk, I write and/or play.
And the one big no-no: DO NOT FORCE YOUR VOICE. That sentence deserves capital letters. I used to do it all the time despite warnings from my doctor, but I know now that it’s just not worth it in the long run. Besides, there are lots of different ways to make music beyond singing. What can you add to my list?
(A final note — as much as I love MacGyver-ing my way through life as a music therapist with laryngitis, I really like to sing and would very much appreciate good vibes sent my way for a speedy recovery!)
Friday Fave: Remo Hand Drums
Last summer, I received an email notifying me that a former student’s family had donated $2,000 to my music therapy program at The Hope Institute. Needless to say, I couldn’t wait for school to start so that I could take inventory of our current instrument collection and decide what to add to it.
Rainsticks, jingle bells, tambourines, cabasas, and a Q-Chord were immediately added to the list, as were all 5 Garageband Jam Packs. And then, a few months later and with a little over $1,000 of the donation remaining, my music therapy intern suggested that we order some new hand drums.
I took the drums with me to classrooms for the first time this week, and they definitely did not go unnoticed. Students and co-workers oohed and aahed when they spied them on my cart in the hallway, and it was apparent that the drums had quickly replaced the shaky fruit as their instrument of choice.
Karen (my intern) and I are using these drums to address all kinds of objectives, including the concepts of slow/fast, soft/loud, counting, 1:1 correspondence, imitation, and more. But I don’t consider myself a drumming expert at all, so for those of you who are, what are some cool ways I can incorporate these drums into my music therapy sessions? (I’m looking at you, Kat Fulton!)
My Favorite Things (A Singable Story)
When I was in high school, you could find me in one of three places during the summer: my job at Baskin-Robbins, the neighborhood pool, or on the stage of the Muni Opera, an outdoor community theater here in Springfield.
I have lots of great memories from the 10+ shows I was in at the Muni, but my absolute favorite was The Sound of Music. I played Louisa von Trapp, and just fell in love with the music. This musical has a special place in my heart because of that experience, so I was very excited when I came across a picture book version of My Favorite Things.
The illustrations in this book are gorgeous and stimulating; even my littlest students enjoy looking at the pictures that accompany the song. For my older students, the book serves as the perfect jumping-off point for a discussion about their own favorite things.
I love singable stories featuring familiar songs — especially those that will get a smile out of my students’ parents, like this one. What are some others worth adding to my ever-expanding collection?
Sunday Singalong: Red, Yellow & Green
Happy Sunday! I had a bit of a hard time trying to decide which song to feature in this week’s video. There was the option of another Valentine-related tune since this is the last Sunday in February, but truth be told, I’m ready to move past this month and get to March (specifically Spring). There was also the option of talking about the cold, snowy weather, but I’m over that, too.
So I took the path less traveled: a song about the traffic lights. I’m going to introduce Red, Yellow & Green to my students at school this week, so this gave me a chance to practice and re-memorize it :)
Another great song I use in conjunction with this one is Red Means Stop by Mr. Heath. It really deserves its own blog post…my students love it because it lets them flex their creative muscles while still learning traffic safety. Any other songs you recommend on this topic? Share them in the comments!
The Ins & Outs of Running a Studio
Earlier this week, I received an email from a reader with a few questions regarding the business and practical aspects of running a music therapy and teaching studio.
Thank you for all you do for music therapy advocacy and encouraging music therapists with ideas. Your energy and ideas inspire me to be more creative in my own practice. I’ve been following your blog for about 6 months now and love it, especially for the practical ideas it gives me for interventions. I’m a music therapy contractor working with hospice patients and preschool children at this time. I have only contracted with facilities until now, at which point I have an opportunity to possibly be the music therapist at a new “alternative” music academy. My understanding is that it is geared toward adaptive music lessons for kids with special needs, and they also want music therapy to be offered.
She then proceeded to list her questions, which I answered at length via email. After all that typing, I decided that since I get these kind of questions so often, I’d just share my answers here on the blog. So here they are!
Should I bill each student and have them pay for the upcoming month at the beginning of the month, to reduce chronic late payers?
Honestly, I prefer weekly billing. My students’ parents know that I expect payment every week at the lesson or session, and if for some reason they forget, they just double up the following week or mail me a check. However, I’ve been using (and 100% recommend) the online studio management software Music Teacher’s Helper and this makes monthly billing a snap. You should also take into account whether or not you have time for make-up lessons and sessions; at this time, I do not, which is why I lean toward weekly billing.
What should the consequences be if a payment is late?
I currently do not have a late payment penalty in place. Maybe I’m lucky compared to most, but I almost never have to deal with late payments. I think this has to do with the fact that my students pay weekly. If you do choose to bill monthly and want to have a late payment penalty in place, you could decide on a flat fee or maybe charge the cost of a lesson.
What should the expectations be for behavior in the studio?
I make my expectations very clear in the form of a letter to families when they join my studio. I outline my policy for parking, entering (don’t knock or ring the doorbell, take your shoes off), and waiting (use the living room, you may watch tv, where the restroom is located), as well as how I expect students to behave in their lessons or sessions.
The #1 expectation is respect — not only of me, but of my instruments, equipment, and the studio as a whole. It’s important to establish this early on, and to enforce it regularly. I’m laid-back in many ways as a teacher and therapist, but not when it comes to the treatment of my materials and myself. I also have a NO WHINING/I CAN’T policy that is repeated far more frequently than I’d like :)
What forms should a parent/student sign?
At the start of the summer session (when I commonly take on new students in larger batches), I give out an annual survey to all of my existing students’ AND new students’ families. It asks for all the typical contact information, in addition to diagnosis (if applicable), current goals, expectations, concerns, allergies, and anything else I might need to know as an instructor and music therapist. This keeps me up to date with my current students, and helps me get to know the new ones.
Do you send students home with “practicing” homework each week?
For both my mainstream and adapted piano, voice and guitar students, I fill out an assignment sheet and progress note at each lesson so that the parents and students know what is expected at the next lesson. There is a space to log practice/work time, and both the parent and student sign it. I’ve been doing this for the past couple of years, but will be moving to an electronic system (again, using Music Teacher’s Helper) this summer.
If so, what do you assign?
My students work out of a combination of method books, worksheets, sheet music, and other materials that I provide. I have each of them bring a 3-ring binder to their lessons every week, and that is where we keep their loose papers, progress notes, assignment sheets, and monthly calendars.
Assignments usually include whichever piece(s) of music they are currently working on, a written assignment from their theory book, and sometimes memorization work (i.e. scales, chords, reading notes on the staff).
Please note that the above applies to students who take mainstream and adapted lessons. In most cases, I don’t assign take-home work to my music therapy students, though I do send them home with CDs and materials from our sessions to supplement our work together.
How do you monitor and reward their progress?
Each week, we take out the assignment sheet from the previous week. We talk about the things they were to work on, and address any difficulty they might still be having. I’ll look over any written assignments, and then have them play their piece(s) and/or exercises for me. This is the point at which I fill out progress notes for parents to see after the lesson.
My younger students have the opportunity to choose a sticker from my vast collection (I have a sticker-buying addiction!) and place it on that day of the calendar if they have finished their work and played to the best of their ability. This is almost always the case. I don’t have a reward system for my older students, aside from verbal and written praise on their progress notes.
If you have additional questions about running a private practice and/or studio, feel free to leave them in the comments. It’s a topic that is very much on my brain these days since I’m busy getting things in place for the summer session, which will be here before we know it!